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What Not To Say to a Woman. Free dating advice for men.What Not to Say to a Woman When You First Meet Her and how to Get Her Phone Number.
Without
an understanding of the customs and manners of a woman, a man can put his best
foot forward and unknowingly turn a date off.
For example, instead of taking the time to listen and get to know his date, a man talks about himself or his theories about life. He thinks this will impress her, and because she keeps asking questions, he thinks this is what she wants. When she does get a chance to talk, he mistakenly assumes she is asking for his advice and begins offering solutions to her problems or answers to her questions. Without even knowing why or how, he begins to turn her off.
Larry brought Phoebe to a restaurant for their first official date. I happened to be sitting next to them at another table. I observed that throughout the whole dinner Larry did all the talking. He spoke like a professor to his class. Phoebe always looked him in the eyes, listened attentively, and with a little smile she nodded her head now and then. It was a sad sight.
When Phoebe would occasionally say something, instead of drawing her more into the conversation, Larry very quickly started expounding again. It was easy to tell that he really like what he was saying, but it was also easy to see that Phoebe was being polite but felt bored and left out.
What could have been a delightful evening was a disappointment for both. They never connected because Larry did all the talking.
If Larry had understood women, he would have asked Phoebe more questions to draw her out.
Asking For A Woman's Number
What makes dating difficult is not understanding the opposite sex. A man wonders if he should ask a woman for her number or not. He wonders how to get it. He wonders if she is attracted to him.
He doesn't realize his power to win her over and become attractive to her. He
doesn't realize how he starts becoming more attractive to her by:
*first initiating eye contact
* just noticing her
* politely and casually looking her over as she looks away
* being interested in getting to know her
* liking her
* being attracted to her
* taking the risk of introducing himself
* asking some friendly questions
* looking at her when she talks
* giving her his full attention
* complimenting her
* letting her know at the end of the conversation that he
would like to call her (It can be so simple to say, "I'd like to give you a
call.")
Whenever a man does something to make a woman feel special, in her eyes he becomes more attractive. Women have said in my seminars that even if they are not at first attracted to a man, his interest makes him more attractive. If he takes the risk of asking for her number or asking her out, she is inclined to say yes just because he took the risk. It makes her feel special and she feels flattered.
When a man can do all of above without being dependent on getting anything else other than the pleasure of getting to know her, this makes him even more attractive. A woman can sense if a man's ability to feel good about himself is dependent on her responses to his advances. If she has to care too much about his needs, if she has to be overly sensitive not to hurt his feelings, then he becomes less attractive. When she is free not to worry about him, but simply enjoy the fact that he cares about her, then she becomes more attracted to him. Most men don't realize the incredible power they have to sweep a woman off her feet. The understanding of how we are different give a man that power.
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