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When we
communicate with one another, we reveal much more than we realize. The
information that we volunteer is called free information. When you ask or answer
a ritual question, be aware of the free information that accompanies the answer.
Focus on this, and use it as conversational fuel for follow-up questions. By
focusing on the free information we can explore each other's experiences and
interests in a natural and free-flowing manner.
Telling Others What You Do
If They Ask.
Some women
feel uncomfortable if others ask them the ritual question "What do you do?" They
feel people will stereotype them or make assumptions based on how they earn a
living. No one likes being put into a pigeonhole, but if you get angry or become
resistant when asked about your profession, you'll throw cold water on the
conversation. It is not a good first question to ask when you meet a woman, being
ready with a short answer is useful.
If you like talking about
your profession, then reveal some free information and see if the woman shows
more interest. After a few sentences about your line of work, it's fine to ask
what she does for a living. For example, you can say, "So now you know a little
about what I do for work. What about you?" If, however, you prefer not to
discuss your work, still answer the question in a word or two. Then add free
information about what you do want to talk about. For example, you might say,
"To pay the bills I work as an attorney for a bank, but my real passion is
French cooking."
You can reveal other basic
facts about yourself, while guiding the direction of the conversation. If you
insist on not disclosing this information, the woman could slowly become
suspicious (especially if she has given out that information or lose interest in
trying to get to know you. If you expect to be friends with this woman, how long
can you withhold this basic information?
Many people who
don't like to tell others what they do are also anxious about other types of
ritual questions. They feel small talk is dull and boring, and should be
avoided. Instead, they say they want to talk about something important.
While there isn't a
particular order as to how conversations should proceed, most conversation that
do not go through the "Ritual" phases rarely proceed to deeper and more
meaningful levels. Small talk is a very important element in conversations with
women and
in establishing friendships and relationships.
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