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This a series of articles about flirting for women so come back every week to see if there is something new.

Did you read Flirting for Women Steps 2? If not, click on the link below and read it first.

Click Here. Flirting for Women the First Steps #2.

Part 3 of Flirting

So How Do You Feel About Flirting?

 If you have read this far then it's fair to assume you are either interested in learning how to flirt or improving your existing talent.  This being so, the first step is to take a look at your existing beliefs about flirting.  Flirting is one of those words that can create heated discussions between people.  How you behave is dependent on what you believe so take the following quiz and flush out what it is you believe about flirting. 

Complete the following statements with the first thing that comes into your mind.
     When I'm flirting, I feel...
     When someone flirts with me, I feel...
      I know I'm flirting when I...
      I know I'm flirting when I say...
      I only flirt with someone if...
      I would never flirt when...
      I would never flirt with...
      Women who flirt are usually...
      Men who flirt are usually...
      Flirting in the workplace is...

Now answer the following questions.
      When you think of flirting, what do you think of?
       Would you call yourself a flirt?
       What area of your flirting would you like to improve?

Have you answered all the questions?  It's important you answer the questions before you read on because when you understand your attitudes and beliefs you will be a better flirt.

We'd like to share with you the various responses we have had from our research into people's beliefs about flirting:

When I flirt I feel... excited, alive, free, mischievous, cheeky, playful, adventurous, sexy, and sometimes even a little naughty.

When someone is flirting with me, I feel... happy, energized, pumped, attractive, flattered, exhilarated, aroused, happy, good about myself, admired, like and appreciated.

I know I am flirting when I...try to get someone's attention, become animated, get aroused, spend a lot of time talking to someone, notice little things about someone, get shy, am flippant, try hard.

I only flirt with someone if I...feel the other person is receptive, find them attractive, feel some chemistry or rapport, feel they are open to it, want them to like me, want them to feel good about themselves trust them, like them, feel comfortable with them, want to be with them, want them to notice me.

I would never flirt with...someone who was married or has a partner, a friend's partner, an ex-partner, a work colleague, someone I don't like, someone I didn't know, a friend of my partner.

Women who usually flirt are...confident, shallow, enticing, self-assured, fun to be around, outgoing, usually testing the waters, aware of their sexuality and know how to use it, usually wanting something from the man.

Men who flirt are...fun, wanting to know if the woman is receptive, looking to hook up, gregarious, trying very hard, not fun for other men to be around, confident, sleazy, entertaining.

As you can see, people have conflicting views about flirting.  Take the woman who feels cheeky when she flirts - she also feels admired and liked when someone flirts with her but thinks women who flirt are usually shallow and men who flirt are often sleazy.  Did you have any conflicting or out-of-date beliefs?  Do you have any rules, such as it's okay to flirt at a party but not at work?

Conflicting beliefs about flirting are not unusual but like other attitudes that hold you back they'll prevent you from becoming a master flirt.  As you read this articles and do the exercises we hope you will find flirting to be a fun, energizing and natural way to live.

Click Here. Flirting for Women Part 4

Click Here. Attracting a Man With Your Eyes and the Sciences That Shows How and Why it Works.