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Compliments Women Love

You may think "You look nice" is a perfectly sweet compliment to pay a woman.  And it is. But it can come across as a trite line rather than something tailored to her. See, the more specific you get when you praise a woman, the more she'll eat it up. To better understand what kind of words will make her day, read on.

Talking to women.

   "You look so amazing in that dress."
You know the tortuously long hour she spent getting ready for some big event? She did it for you, dum-dum! That's why you have to acknowledge that she looks even more radiant than usual. "Reassure her that you noticed the effort and appreciate it by singling out something specific," says psychologist Sheenah Hankin, PhD, author of Complete Confidence. You can borrow this line: "Your eyes look awesome when you wear that color."

   "I'm impressed with..."
Your girl wants to know she stands apart from the masses. One way to convey that is by drawing attention to her unique talents. "If she is hilarious, speaks a few languages fluently, or has a great singing voice, highlight what makes her different," suggests New York City psychotherapist JoAnn Magdoff, PhD. Not only does it make her feel special, but it also shows just how well you know her, which is flattering in and of itself.

   "That felt incredible."
The better a woman thinks she is in bed, the more she'll want to get horizontal. So boost her sexual self-confidence by praising her erotic skills. "Women often worry about whether they're pleasing their partners," says Hankin. "During sex or afterward in bed, let her know how good it felt by pointing out how crazy you are about one of her moves."

"You always know..."
When you come home from a gnarly day of work to find the game's on and she's whipped up a pizza, tell her, "You always know how to cheer me up." A comment like that goes much further than "Hey, thanks."

"She likes to hear that she's uniquely adept at making you fell better," says Magdoff. "It reinforces what a nurturing girlfriend she is and how lucky you feel to have her."

   Is breaking the ice with a compliment a turn-off?
Not if the compliment is unique (think "striking cheekbone," not "beautiful eyes") and you sound 100 percent sincere. But what comes out of your mouth sometimes has a lot less impact than the way you look saying it. One study by Princeton psychologist Alex Todorov, PhD, found that people often decide whether someone is attractive and trustworthy one-tenth of a second after laying eyes on them. My point: If you fit a girl's preconceived notion of a cute, hot, cool, or interesting-looking guy, you could say just about anything and get a smile in response. Take a shot.

What To Say to a Woman.

   My confidence with the ladies has been shaky ever since my last girlfriend dumped me. How can I give off a better vibe?
Start by upgrading your appearance. I guarantee your female acquaintances will notice your new look and compliment you. Hearing how good you look will give your ego a spit shine, and that will make approaching pretty strangers a little easier. Select one of these overhauls: (1) Take yourself some place warm for a weekend. Come back with a healthy glow. You'll look better, plus you'll have an interesting travel story to tell. (2) Start dressing more formally. If you wear khakis, switch to dress pants and button downs. If you wear dress pants and button-downs, switch to designer suits. (3) get a cool new pair of specs. (4) Lose 5 to 10 pounds. Your features will become more pronounced, and you'll look and fell like a born-again stud. Dressing for Success and What to Wear to Attract and Seduce Women.  Click Here.  

   I wasted 2 hours flirting. Is it okay to just ask a girl if she's single?
You can, but not right away. Wait a good 10 minutes or so into the conversation, then say something like, "There's no way you're single, right? If she's interested, a woman will take the question in stride. If she gets offended, you probably didn't have a chance.

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