It is very important to understand that there are two kinds of self-esteem problems, situational  and characterological. Low self-esteem that is situational tends to show up only is specific areas, like your self doubt in your ability to successfully woo and seduce a man.  This self doubt can come from many possible sources. Some women are sure that the position they hold at work is not worthy of a attractive man's company. Girls, I run into this problem all the time with clients.  I know female clients that make great money, have their home paid off by their early thirties  have a MBA degree, drive a new car, and still they think that their job is the reason they cannot get a good man.  This is just one example of a situational self-esteem problem.

For women, a very common situational self-esteem problem
is that they are not completely comfortable with all or some part of their body. Girls I have worked with women that are more than 15% overweight and they woo and get married to lean, attractive men. These women have completely worked out their self-esteem problems. There are many conclusive studies that prove that just exercising raises a women's self-esteem without even losing a pound.