There are six steps or should I say things that are established that man or women go through from first meeting to making love.

They are as follows:

1. First Impressions

2. Similar Character, Complementary Needs

3. Equity

4. Ego

5. Early-Date Gender-Menders

6. Rx for Sex

Today we are going to talk about First Impressions.

You never get a second chance at Love at First Sight

First impressions are indelible.  Why? Because in our fast paced, information-overload world of multiple stimuli bombarding us every second, people’s heads are spinning.  They are making quick judgments to make sense of the world and get on with what they have to do.  So, whenever men meet you, they take an instant mental snapshot.  That image of you becomes the data they deal with for a very long time. So look great, use proper body language, and think about what you are going say.  

The first moment you spot your quarry and he or she gets a glimpse of you, you must be decisive.  Herein lies a go/no decision.  Scientist tell us that love’s seed are often sown during the first few minutes of a relationship.

 When two cats meet for the first time, they stop and look at each other.  If one hisses, the other bristles his coat and hisses back.  However, if the first kitten gives a little nudge with its cold nose, the other kitten responds in kind and they wind up purring together and licking each other’s coats.

 A man and a woman getting to know each other are like two little animals sniffing each other out.  We do not have tails that wag or hair that bristles, but we do have eyes that narrow or widen.  We have hands that flash knuckles or subconsciously soften in the palms-up “I submit" position.  There are dozens of other “involuntary” reactions that take place in the first few moments of interaction.  The good news is that we can learn to control these presumed involuntary reactions. 

 The moment you set eyes on each other, your Potential Love Partner subconsciously reads the subtleties of your body language.  In these first crucial moments, he or she can unconsciously resolve to try for romantic takeoff or abort thoughts of love.  His or her mind then becomes computer like, and your Potential Love Partners, PLP, continues to make rapid decisions about you during your first conversation, your first date or meeting.

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