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For Women: Flirting for Women - Part 3. So How Do You Feel About Flirting? If you have read this far then it's fair to assume you are either interested in learning how to flirt or improving your existing talent. This being so, the first step is to take a look at your existing beliefs about flirting. Flirting is one of those words that can create heated discussions between people. How you behave is dependent on what you believe so take the following quiz and flush out what it is you believe about flirting.

Complete the following statements with the first thing that comes into your mind. When I'm flirting, I feel... When someone flirts with me, I feel... I know I'm flirting when I... I know I'm flirting when I say... I only flirt with someone if... I would never flirt when... I would never flirt with... Women who flirt are usually... Men who flirt are usually... Flirting in the workplace is...

Now answer the following questions. When you think of flirting, what do you think of? Would you call yourself a flirt? What area of your flirting would you like to improve? Have you answered all the questions? It's important you answer the questions before you read on because when you understand your attitudes and beliefs you will be a better flirt.

We'd like to share with you the various responses we have had from our research into people's beliefs about flirting: When I flirt I feel... excited, alive, free, mischievous, cheeky, playful, adventurous, sexy, and sometimes even a little naughty.

When someone is flirting with me, I feel... happy, energized, pumped, attractive, flattered, exhilarated, aroused, happy, good about myself, admired, like and appreciated.

I know I am flirting when I...try to get someone's attention, become animated, get aroused, spend a lot of time talking to someone, notice little things about someone, get shy, am flippant, try hard.

I only flirt with someone if I...feel the other person is receptive, find them attractive, feel some chemistry or rapport, feel they are open to it, want them to like me, want them to feel good about themselves trust them, like them, feel comfortable with them, want to be with them, want them to notice me Click Here to become a good flirt and learn more.

 For Men: How to Talk to Women, What's a Good Opening Line When You Meet a Woman? This story about Samuel I  Hayakawa makes a very good point. Samuel was a college president, U.S. senator, and brilliant linguistic analyst of Japanese origin. Keep in mind he is Japanese. This story shows us the value of, "unoriginal remarks."

In early 1943 - after the attack on Pearl Harbor at a time when there were rumors of Japanese spies - Hayakawa had to wait several hours in a railroad station in Oshkosh, Wisconsin. He noticed others waiting in the station were staring at him suspiciously. Because of the war, they were apprehensive about his presence. He later wrote, "One couple with a small child was staring with special uneasiness and whispering to each other." So what did Hayakawa do? He made unoriginal remarks to set them at ease. He said to the husband that it was too bad the train should be late on a cold night. The man agreed.

"I went on," Hayakawa wrote, " to remark that it must be especially difficult to travel with a small child in winter when train schedules were so uncertain. Again the husband agreed. I then asked the child's age and remarked that their child looked very big and strong for his age. Again agreement, this time with a slight smile. The tension was relaxing."

After two or three more exchanges, the man asked Hayakawa, "I hope you don't mind my bringing it up, but you're Japanese, aren't you? Do you think the Japs have any chance of winning this war?

" Hayakawa went on, "My remark was admittedly neither original nor well informed." Hundred of radio commentators...were saying much the same thing during those weeks. But just because they were, the remark sounded familiar and was on the right side so that it was easy to agree with."

The Wisconsin man agreed at once with what seemed like genuine relief. His next remark was, "Say, I hope your folks aren't over there while the war is going on." "Yes, they are," Hayakawa replied. "My father and mother and two young sisters are over there." "Do you every hear from them?" the man asked. "How can I?" Hayakawa answered. Both the man and his wife looked troubled and sympathetic. "Do you mean you won't be able to see them or hear from them until after the war is over?"

There was more to the conversation but the result was, within ten minutes they had invited Hayakawa - whom they initially may have suspected was a Japanese spy - to visit them sometime in their city and have dinner in their home. And all because of this brilliant scholar's admittedly common and unoriginal small talk.  Top communicators know the most soothing and appropriate first words should be, like Senator Hayakawa's, unoriginal, even banal. Click Here and learn more.

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One of our most important conversational skills doesn't come from our tongue, but from our body. Research has shown that over half of face-to-face conversation is nonverbal. "Body language," as it is called, often communicates our feelings and attitudes before we speak, and it projects our level of receptivity to others.

A simple thought can make all the differance between getting a phone number and next date or not. A few micromilliwatts of energy flowing through our brain. A seemingly innocuous, almost ephemeral event. And yet, a thought - or, more accurately a carefully orchestrated series of thoughts - has a significant impact on our mind, our body, and our emotions. So make it a good one.

The percentage of women who have agreed to a date because they like the car or truck that a man drives: 7.7%.  The percentage of men that are wrong, about a woman's wants and needs, over 77%. The percentage of woman that agreed to date because you look confident and are confident, are a great dresser, have a great smile and look very healthy 60%. And if you add saying the right thing at the right time 92%.

Did you know that the greatest lover in history was many times jobless? He was not good looking, was not tall, had an ugly nose and was losing his hair. But, he knew the secrets that unlock a woman’s heart in spite of an unremarkable mug, no below average man is more renowned for his power over women than Giacomo Casanova.

A truth about men: Men are totally okay with being a piece of meat.  Compliment men about their eyes, smile, biceps or other body parts.

True intimacy is not just about doing anything you dream about in bed and knowing it will be okay with your partner.  Intimacy involves a special feeling of comfort and awareness between you and your lover; you feel closer to each other than you do to anyone else.  This doesn't mean you will never have difficult times, but intimacy will help you deal with dilemmas.

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