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Why do many men bolt when women say I love you? When and how should I say I love you?  How do I get my man to say I love you to me?

What Makes A Man Fall In Love?

Why we can't let love in until you've shown us the way-and the simple words that can unleash our deepest affections from men.

Think of a great relationship as though it were a great meal: A delicious, meaty steak of sexual passion accompanied by a fine, delicate wine of romance and commitment. Both of us want it all -the perfect, satisfying course. And we need both-steak by itself is dry and unsatisfying; and wine will get you tipsy, but it won't satisfy your hunger. Now, before the metaphor police revoke my license, let me simply push this analogy a little further: Men are a little more focused on the meat of the relationship, and women a bit more on the wine. But both sexes want to get up from the table completely satisfied.

Need evidence? More than three-fourth of men believe in soul mates. And when we asked our guys to choose between meeting the love of their life or having amazing sex for six months, 92 percent chose falling in love.

So why then does it always seem like women are leading the relationship toward commitment, and men need to be dragged along like a preschooler to a dentist appointment? Because in the early-on Stratego game of dating, we need to see where you're moving first. Consider this: Less than half of men say they're typically the first ones to say "I love you" in a relationship, and more women than men initially broach the subject of taking the relationship to the next level.

That point to the notion that what men really want when it comes to love in your assurance-your permission, really-that it's okay to let the butterflies out of the cage.

Michael, 37, a restaurant owner in North Carolina, says he's cautious about expressing himself early on-not because he's complacent or wants to play games or wants to make the woman squirm like a mouse in a cat's mouth. He holds back because he's waiting to get the signal that it's okay to press the accelerator.

Chris, 29, a recently married public defender, agrees, "Men need to be told that they're wanted," he says. "Women forget that if they like a nice guy, that the nice guy might be too nervous to tell them what he feels." And then he added this interesting insight: "Women need to be more open to being hurt the way guys are every day."

Hold on a second. Guys are hurt more often than women?

Hmm. Think about it: In the romance game, it's usually the man who makes the first move (Usually after you've dropped him countless hints waiting for him to finally pick up on them). But in doing so, men open themselves up to more rejection than a telemarketing trainee. And believe me, even George Clooney has a psychic master list of turn-downs that he still winces over from time to time.

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What to Say to a Woman When You First Meet Her # 2. Let us first presume that before you make your first comment you look powerful, very sharp. Let us also presume that you are charged up, full of energy, have a great attitude about the day, evening, or event. I presume you have confidence in yourself and confidence in your ability to win over a woman. You only have on one squirt of cologne in the right spot or perhaps none at all.

You spot the woman you want, hopefully you have made the right eye contact and things look good. You smile at her she smiled back. Now if none of this has happened yet and this is the woman you want still go for it.

Walk over nice and easy. Stand tall good posture, as you walk her way, make sure you are making eye contact, or get ready to if she turns your way. Smile now she is looking at you. See if she smiles back, are her palms up or down is she turning away or not. Even if she does look away and things don't look good you still have a small chance as she my just be shy.

Now you are in front of her. Extend out your hand and say I am your name what is yours. She says Deb, no silence now. follow with these kind of questions depending on where you are. Use her first name every other question and on every compliment.

Thinking of openers is simple. You basically have only three topics to choose from: the situation, the other person, or yourself. You have three ways to begin: asking a question, voicing an opinion, stating a fact.

Starting with talking about the situation is the best way to start. Make sure you listen good you may want to follow up later or if it's good timing right away. Here are some examples of openers. keep in mind you can come up with many more that are just as good.

In a classroom: "What do you know about the teacher?" "I was absent yesterday. What did we talk about?" "What do you think will be on the exam?"

At a horse race: "Who do you think will win?" Why do you say that?" "Why do you think he will win?"

At a art museum: "What do you suppose the artist wanted to say?" "What do you think of this artist other work?"

In line for a movie: "What have you heard about this movie?" "What made you decide to see it?"

At the market: "I notice you are buying artichokes. I've always been curious; how do you prepare them?" You can do this with almost any food. "How do you fix your turkey?"

 To a neighbor: "Your lawn is so green. What is your secret?" "What's that you are working on?"

At a laundromat: "How much detergent do you need with these machines?"

Talking About The Other Person Most people like to talk about themselves and will be pleased to respond to your questions or comments. Start by doing this; observe what the other person is doing, wearing, saying, or reading. To see a list of a lot more questions for men asking women click here. Questions for the women asking men click here

I dine at a local restaurant where I often see a woman or man who usually eats alone. How can I ask  if she or he wants to join me for dinner and then get their phone number? "Mind if I join you?" Only about 20 percent of the people will decline, and they will usually apologize, saying they are expecting a friend or have lots of work to do. 80% of the time it works. More information For Men For Women

Open-ended questions are like essay questions in that they promote answers of more than a word or two. They ask for explanations and elaborations, while showing your conversational partners (much to their delight!) that you are so interested in what they have said that you want to know more.

How to ask open-ended questions. For Women, For Men

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Ritual questions can be used to break the ice with a man you don't know and wish to speak to. The easiest way to start a conversation with a man is to employ one of the three following openings. First, notice something interesting about the man you wish to speak with and, in a friendly and sincere manner, offer a compliment. Quickly follow the compliment with a ritual questions that is directly related to the compliment you just gave. The "opening line" might be: "That's a beautiful ring you're wearing! What kind of stone is it?" or "Say, you're a terrific skater! How did you learn to do all those tricks?"

One of our most important conversational skills doesn't come from our tongue, but from our body. Research has shown that over half of face-to-face conversation is nonverbal. "Body language," as it is called, often communicates our feelings and attitudes before we speak, and it projects our level of receptivity to others.

A simple thought can make all the differance between getting a phone number and next date or not. A few micromilliwatts of energy flowing through our brain. A seemingly innocuous, almost ephemeral event. And yet, a thought - or, more accurately a carefully orchestrated series of thoughts - has a significant impact on our mind, our body, and our emotions. So make it a good one.

The percentage of women who have agreed to a date because they like the car or truck that a man drives: 7.7%.  The percentage of men that are wrong, about a woman's wants and needs, over 77%. The percentage of woman that agreed to date because you look confident and are confident, are a great dresser, have a great smile and look very healthy 60%. And if you add saying the right thing at the right time 92%.

Did you know that the greatest seducer in history was many times jobless? He was not good looking, was not tall, had an ugly nose and was losing his hair. But, he knew the secrets that unlock a woman’s heart in spite of an unremarkable mug, no below average man is more renowned for his power over women than Giacomo Casanova.

A truth about men: Men are totally okay with being a piece of meat.  Compliment men about their eyes, smile, biceps or other body parts.

True intimacy is not just about doing anything you dream about in bed and knowing it will be okay with your partner.  Intimacy involves a special feeling of comfort and awareness between you and your lover; you feel closer to each other than you do to anyone else.  This doesn't mean you will never have difficult times, but intimacy will help you deal with dilemmas.

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Let us look at a small list of social scientists that do research on how to attract the opposite sex and on good and bad sex, their findings support my free dating advice. Social Psychologists and Anthropologists, like Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Zick Rubin, Dr. Eckhard Hess, Dr. Joy Browne, Dr. David Givens, Dr. Emily Nagoski, Dr. Debby Herbenick at the Kinsey Institute, Lauren Slade founder of the Universal College of Reflexology, Kerry Grow, sex therapist, and many more.

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